Reincarnation

It has always been said that if we are good and kind we will go to heaven. But how many of us dare to say that we deserve to go there. If we dont go there, then where do we go after death? To burn forever in hell? To reincarnate again as a human, or some lower life forms?
We ( a few ladies ) have talk about reincarnation and whether we would want to marry or marry the same man again in our next life. So far I heard of only one who wants to marry the same man again and have made a pact to marry one another in their next life. A few said they will not marry.........at all. To them who have undergone so much sufferings, they are no more interested in marriage and would prefer to walk the path alone. Others want to marry but not to the same man.To each her own.
As for me, I hope not to be reborn in this world again. Not as anything.....the thought of being in this world again is scary. If one is born as a human with plenty of resources, the tendency for one to create bad karma is very high. If one is born poor, there is so much sufferings trying to elk a living. If one is born disabled, then one is a burden to one's family and society.  If one is born as an animal etc.....then it is even more pitiful. Many types of animals are slaughtered  and eaten. Some are eaten while still alive. Even insects are not spared from the dinner table. If they cannot be eaten, they are mistreated. How many animals are loved by their owners like a member of the family? Look at the many dogs and cats abandoned by their owners once they lost their cuteness or grow old and sick.
I try not to create any more bad karma........I dont want to return. I prefer to give than accept. If we accept too many things from others, then we may have to pay back in our next life. Whatever I owe to others I hope to clear in this lifetime so that I dont have to return. I want to embark on A Journey of No Return.