Living in a Grateful World

I copied this from a book: Living in a Grateful World.
Be grateful to whose who have hurt or harm you for they have reinforced your determination
Be grateful to those who have deceived you for they have deepened your insight
Be grateful to those who have hit you for they have reduced your karmic obstacles
Be grateful to those who have abandoned you for they have taught you to be independent
Be grateful to those who have made you stumble for they have strengthened your ability
Be grateful to those who have denounce you for they have increased your wisdom and concentration

We always feel anger towards people whom we feel have caused us harm in whatever way. Actually we should feel gratitude towards them as they are in a way our teachers. They teach us patience and strengthened us.We become better people because we don't want to be like them. We will avoid being like them. We will treat people better because we know how much it hurts emotionally and physically if we treats others badly.

We should always remember when we hurt one person, we are hurting many people. Those around her/him who feels the sadness and hurt too. They feel helpless as they cannot protect her/him from those who hurt her.
Many don't realize their action can send a person into depression and even cause suicide. Not many people especially the young are able to take the cold shoulders and the insults hurled at them. For those who are unable to take it, it will harm them psychologically.

For all those who are in this situation, I have  one advice: However bad a situation, it is temporary only. .....and soon this will pass. Better time will follow. Night is always followed by day. The darkest hour is before dawn. Do not let people get you down. Whatever it is be strong ........and become an even stronger person.

There is no need to seek revenge.....karma works in strange way. Whatever bad things one dishes out to others, one will get a taste of it later. One reaps what one sows.
Retributions will come sooner or later.........it is only when that we don't know. Good karma doesn't last forever.........a flower is never always blooming. After some time, it will fade. It is like good karma.....if we always take out and didn't deposit back soon our account will be depleted. Then we will suffer the consequences of our action.