During one of my down period, I msg my brother in facebook very early in the morning to pour out my woes. I know at that time he was still sleeping and would probably open his fb account at night.....or maybe in the next few nights. That night he answered my msg and gave me advice. He said that for the past few nights he had not on his computer.....but that night he read my msg on his fb book. He must have felt my need for his advice. He gave me some solid advice.
I think it is usually this way. We are able to feel our closed ones need for us and do the right thing. I have many bros, but he is the only one that I am close to and who really understands. After receiving his reply, I felt very much better. Thank bro, for being there for me so many times.